Are You Somebody Who Believes Love Sucks?

So many people believe that love sucks. They've gone through a break up, usually break up after break up, and they blame love for their pain.
Tina Turner asked, "What's Love Got to Do With It?"
But it's not love and romance that inspires a woeful "Love Sucks!' It's us. We humans who believe that just because we're human we should know how to love.
That'd be nice, but it's not so. So what do we do?
First, the phrase "love sucks," has to go. It's a lie. More important, it's an illusion that takes love and romance right down the drain. Why? Because as long as you believe love sucks . . . it will. Guaranteed.
Next we have to accept that love and romance have to be learned. Ideally from parents who know how to love and aren't afraid to express it in front of their children. But, sadly that doesn't happen often. Quite the opposite. We learn that love sucks from a very early age.
So if you're staying away from love and romance you must decide to stop running and start learning.
How? In this article we're going to tell you what not to do. Because there are so many traps that will snare you.
1) Don't ask your friends for advice --- unless you can see that they know how to live love and romance. Since most people don't, asking them is a guaranteed recipe for saying . . . "See. I told you love sucks."
2) Don't fall into fantasy. That'll keep you wrapped up in your head. You need to get out of your own love-sucks-pain. Otherwise you'll be stuck, and the love and romance you want will never come your way.
3) Don't pretend. When you do, you're only fooling yourself. The truth is you're setting up an inevitable breakup with your own sense of who you are. That's deadly --- emotionally and spiritually.

Going through a break up is rough. But don't let that breakup stop you. Don't choose to say "Love Sucks." It doesn't.

Where Are You ???

My dear friends which I know well and other people which I don't know personally where are you ? This statement cross my mind lately. How it is possible that nobody visit my blog? What I do wrong? I have only one person which follow me.Seems to me that nobody listen music this days but it's not truth. I know it.Must be something else.I am not kind of man who  like to make promotion  of  myself . So nobody of my friends don't know that I write blog and it will be like it, except if they find out somehow alone. I am one young man and I still have time for everything in my life. Even for changes... Like you already know I am a seamen and I come home from South Korea. There surprise me unusual cleanliness of streets and wonderfully decorated parks. I was in China before and there are very dirty.In China the sea ( we call it Yellow Sea or China's sea) is very blurred .I was not able to visit any place there , as it is famous China Wall , and I know that there are many wonderful places ....I just want to say which kind of impression I got between Korea & China. By the way nobody speak English , or maybe 2% can speak other language. In China you can buy and eat right there on the street , a wide selection of food . In  Korea is not like that. We didn't stay in China more than a  few days and in Korea we were only one week or so....When you work as me and other sailors, than you have not time to visit anything what is far away from the port.Unfortunately ! I travel everywhere and I meet people ,but like I write on the top of this story nobody read my blog. Where Are You People ???

My Top 4 Indie Rock CDs of 2009

2009 has been a great year for music, with many new albums coming out. Both new artists and more established artists made a big impact on the music world this year, and there was some truly enjoyable music. While the year isn't over yet, there's been enough of a year to give some awards out. Here we go.
4. Dark Was the Night (various artists). While this was a compilation CD, all of the music on it was original and written specifically for this compilation. Some of the best names in indie rock produced songs on this. From The Decemberists, to Spoon, to Bon Iver, and so many more (seriously), this album is packed with great songs.
3. Grizzly Bear, Veckatimest. So maybe the sound is a little unconventional and it's an acquired taste, but these guys are brilliant. Between the hooks and the freshness of the sound, I absolutely love this album. It pulls me in on every listen with its layered sounds.
2. The Felice Brothers, Yonder is the Clock. This sounds more like Bob Dylan than anything else, but to simply end the comparison there (as great as that is) wouldn't do the band as much Justice as they deserve. A modern day folk classic, this is a must listen for anyone who likes the genre.
1. The Dirty Projectors, Bitte Orca. How could I even classify this album? It's hard to say, but with unconventional guitar hooks and some great female backing vocals, this is a truly innovative album.

These are all in my opinion and surely you'll have yours. I hope you enjoy these albums if you haven't heard them yet.